Behind the Scenes ~ Hide ~N~ Seek

Behind the Scenes is more important than what is face value. Throughout the years, I’ve learned people can say anything, manipulate your emotions, thoughts, feelings, and five senses, even on the outer appearance, seem very nice, handsome, or beautiful, be well mannered, yet, behind the scenes, this is what determines whether someone is worthy of…

Building a Healthier Society for Humanity

“The main condition for the achievement of love is the overcoming of one’s narcissism. The narcissistic orientation is one in which one experiences as real only that which exists within oneself, while the phenomena in the outside world have no reality in themselves, but are experienced only from the viewpoint of their being useful or…

The Power of the Spoken Word

Life is a hard battle anyway. If we laugh and sing a little as we fight the good fight of freedom, it makes it all go easier. I will not allow my life’s light to be determined by the darkness around me. ~ Sojourner Truth Whenever the darkness comes in life, the emotions swing low,…

75.1 Flavors of Emotion in the Millennial Generation

When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion. ~ Dale Carnegie In society from an early age, Introverted Millennials have been taught to suppress their emotions. This is never healthy to be told all your life, it’s unhealthy to feel whatever your feeling. Culture supports the…

Emotional & Mental Hockey Time in the Millennial World

Growing up on the shores of Western Michigan, I attended a lot of hockey games. Through the years, I observed some of the greatest hockey players be slammed against the boards, slide across the ice, be high checked, wiped out, move through the obstacles, maneuver in and out of their opponents, jump over their defense,…

The Negative Inner Critic & Catastrophic Thinking

Success is not built on success. It’s built on failure. It’s built on frustration. Sometimes its built on catastrophe. ~ Sumner Redstone One of the misconceptions individuals hold is the idea failure is a negative experience. This is a false-belief. Whenever and individual projects negative feedback, “You’re a failure.”, this is not your personal truth….

Say Goodbye to Short-Cuts & Quick Fixes

Long-term, we must begin to build our internal strengths. It isn’t just skills like computer technology. It’s the old-fashioned basics of self-reliance, self-motivation, self-reinforcement, self-discipline, self-command.  ~ Steven Pressfield The art of love requires one to become love in action. Love begins within one’s self. I’ve always been focused on love the majority of my…

Shyness Is nice ~ Introverted Millennials

Shyness is nice, and Shyness can stop you From doing all the things in life You’d like to. ~ The Smiths The beauty of being an Introvert, I’ve spent many times listening to the Band the Smiths. I believe for many years, I heard from another individual’s I was shy. Morrissey is the classic Introvert,…

The Overwhelmed Millennial

When you do nothing, you feel overwhelmed and powerless. But when you get involved you feel the sense of hope and accomplishment that comes from knowing you are working to make things better.  ~ Maya Angelou From birth, the Introverted Millennial may experience repeated patterns of feeling overwhelmed with emotion. Events occur in one’s life,…

Earthing Balances the Introverted Millennials Emotions

The earth laughs in flowers. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson Growing up on the shores of Lake Michigan, Lake Superior, Lake Ontario, Lake Erie, and Lake Huron, I’ve grown to love water. There is nothing more sensual, natural, soothing, or calming than feeling the cleansing effect of water in motion and burying your feet in the…

Recognize the Inner Wounds

“There is something beautiful about all scars of whatever nature. A scar means the hurt is over, the wound is closed and healed, done with.” ~ Harry Crews There’s a lot to say about those who find courage to heal their inner wounds from childhood and past romantic relationships. Half the battle in life is…

Stay in Control of Your Life

Life isn’t meant to be easy. It’s hard to take being on the top – or on the bottom. I guess I’m something of a fatalist. You have to have a sense of history, I think, to survive some of these things… Life is one crisis after another.  ~ Richard M. Nixon History repeats itself…